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100 and 1 reasons why the family is

The family man will say, "Why not."
A single one will say, "Why do I need this?"

In fact, this is not about why we need a family or why we choose to live in families. And most likely, about how wonderful or not to have our own family.
I remember asking my future wife to marry me. I remember how we spent our wedding. I remember the most courageous and intriguing gift, an empty envelope. Yes, I remember a lot of family life and I am even sure that she too. But like everyone, we have quarrels and joys. We live like two people still in love with each other, and we are not strangers under the same roof. This is what I call being a family.
Family happiness is when both spouses are happy with their lives, and not when they both hate each other.
The most important thing in the family is care, support and compromise, of course. You can complement your spouse, not dominate him or obey. We often discuss new ideas with Maya or share new experiences. We often spend our time with our cat Ri. And we often take the time to listen to each other and try to help solve everything together as if one harmonious mechanism. This is the family.
Each of us makes a family as we can. But there is no need to build only walls without roofs and frames.
The family is without hard feelings, hatred, envy and normal obedience. Here is what kind of family you need to make. Each of us could actually have a difficult childhood or youth, maybe even old age. This is not a reason to put it all on others.

Remember, if you don’t believe anybody, you don’t have confidence or you don’t want to compromise, it’s just your fault. No one will live your life for you and build you a world of perfect things. Even a supercomputer doesn't be up to the task. So take your destiny, your questions and problems into your own hands and solve them yourself.

To be a superhero for your current or future children. Because for them we make families in which they live afterwards.


xx
Cass

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